Relationship Compatibility Test
Relationship compatibility test is a form of personality quizzes used to predetermine personal characteristics of would-be partners in a relationship; to see if they share enough personality traits for a lasting relationship. There is no question that people's trust to rely on relationship compatibility test has grown by leaps and bounds over the years -- but really, how much trust should we put into these tests in order to make a major decision as huge as choosing a life partner? Surprisingly, opinions on these issues are widespread; from those who are complete believers of the test to casual participants who take the test for the sake of it.
It used to be that people with certain believes will consult with Astrologers for readings of astrological signs and all the likes to see if there is somebody predetermined for them as future partner. Though that still goes on, more and more people these days are turning to quiz based readings by answering sets of questions to determine a compatibility match. Which leads me to another question, how reliable are these relationship compatibility tests when people don't always tell the truth? And if that is the case, what percentage of the match index should be acceptable, 50%, 60%, 70% or what?
Don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to ditch compatibility testing, it's just that too many people latch onto it as if it's scientifically based -- but it's not. If somebody can tell you what they want you to hear, and not what they feel or who they really are, then how can people put so much stock on such arbitrary test to make a decision about lasting relationships? All I’m saying is don't choose your future relationship partner based entirely on relationship compatibility test -- and that settling with compatibility match index of even 50% is not bad as long as you have other areas to judge them on. Look at it this way, if you are 100% compatible with someone but don't like anything about them physically when you see them; I would guess that you may not feel compatible after all. On the other hand, if you're only 50% compatible with someone and found out later that you like all their physical attributes; chances are that you may feel upbeat about what the future holds for both of you.
Yes, upbeat, may be hopeful, but no guarantees. You see, majority of reasons people give as to why they take relationship compatibility test are that they want to know ahead of time if the relationship would work. And to avoid future unknowns; thereby guaranteeing that the union has better chance of lasting.
There's no doubt that much can be gained in taking relationship compatibility test only as a part of many factors to arrive at future relationship decisions. However, basing your entire future on none-scientific test that people can manipulate by giving false answers may be unwise. Choose wise, explore all the avenues available to you, and for goodness sake, don't constrain yourself.
